Sunday, February 22, 2009

idea of doing!

I was talking to one of my friends. We often end up discussing hypothetical and abstract things. Things went in the direction of love and Radha-Krishna. There he made a wonderful remark. "May be they did not actually like to be together; rather liked the idea of being together". Then I pondered over the stuff and realized that its true most of the times. Most of the times we like the idea of doing something rather than doing that thing actually. For example I like the idea of sitting in an evening and reading through some book. But I never could end up doing it! Similarly if we analyze our life, we will find that many times we like the idea of doing something than doing it actually. And in case of love also things are no different! Many times lovers like the idea of being together than actually being together!

2 comments:

atul said...

Is it some what related that we often love building hopes and to be in our own world of dreams, to be or not to be. As being with someone in love also involves a lot of responsibility on one's part and its always a better escape to create a hypothetical world of your own where there is no one to question you, and since lovers do get possessive of one another....... so its always preferred to manufacture the idea of doing rather than doing the thing actually.

Unknown said...

yes may be... just thoughts!